I'm a firm believer in "variety is the spice of life" and you should not put all your eggs in one basket by pursuing and focusing all your efforts on one woman. If you are looking for a permanent girlfriend, then fine, go for it! But, you can have a lot more romance and fun by pursuing casual, short-term relationships with a variety of single women. Another advantage to having multiple relationships going on at the same time is that you will always have a back-up. If one relationship fizzles out, then you've always got another woman waiting in the wings. Plus, you have the luxury of dropping the women that are not working out, knowing that you have other single women to take their place. Let me tell you about a disadvantage of being tied up with just one exclusive girlfriend. You will start ignoring other single women and golden opportunities that come up to score with women. It's your choice though, if you want to be devoted to one person only, then go ahead. I sure can't stop you. There's another thing that will help you in your pursuit of scoring with single women when you already have some casual relationships going on on the side. You feel a lot more relaxed when you are approaching women. If a woman rejects your advances, it's no big deal because you know there are more fish in the sea and you already have a harem of girls. Plus your attitude of being relaxed and feeling no pressure will attract single women like a magnet. Why? Because single women are very attracted to men who are confident and sure of themselves. In closing, don't take this article the wrong way. I'm not against a one on one commitment. In my opinion, I think you will have a lot more fun playing the field until you have sown all your wild oats. |
